Tuesday, January 31, 2006

Last Summer by Michael Thomas Ford

justification (woshoo): a friend lend me this book... and i got intrigued of how a gay-oriented book may be like... funny thing i got stuck into it for more than a week.... it was indeed enlightening... it opened me more of how it was being gay... its a must read. and i hope my friend would lend me the other book by Michael Thomas Ford... LOOKING FOR IT.

some reviews i gathered from the net:

Ladymol's Review:
This is a very enjoyable novel, which follows the lives of a mixed bag of inhabitants of a small New England seaboard town, Provincetown, as they mingle and interact with the vast, annual flood of visitors (most of them gay) who come to enjoy the summer break.
Josh is running away from his long-term boyfriend, Doug, whom he has just discovered has cheated on him. Reilly is the straight, intelligent, gorgeous carpenter working on the cottage he rents for the summer. Josh is instantly attracted to him, but Reilly is about to marry his childhood sweetheart, Donna. Toby is running away from his family, who can’t accept that he is gay. Emmeline is caring for her estranged, dying mother, a difficult relationship as Emmeline was born Mason, a man. Jackie is a lesbian, about to turn forty, with her biological clock chiming like Big Ben in her head. Reid is a top Hollywood movie producer not openly gay, but comfortable with his choices, who fell for his leading man, Ty, the most eligible bachelor in Hollywood. To his intense delight, Ty feels the same, but their love has to remain secret, which puts a huge strain on their relationship. Devin is a scheming bitch, living back with her parents in Provincetown, waiting for her opportunity to lie, cheat or blackmail her way to a glittering career in Hollywood.
Each thread is equally well written with a nice balance between them. There’s just enough tension in the Reid, Ty, Devlin story to make you really care for the characters and want them to work out. The Josh, Reilly story is particularly good: the straight man finding something with Josh he never thought to look for in a man.
It’s an upbeat novel and leaves you with a good feeling that however divergent and different people are, they can find bonds that bring them together.
This is Michael Thomas Ford’s first novel, and in some ways that shows—not in poor writing, it’s well written throughout. Just occasionally there’s too much indulgence of personal interests and little quirks that inexperienced writers fall into—you know the sort of thing, you see it in fanfic all the time: Spike suddenly becoming a student at some school or other because that’s just what the “author” has done. It’s forgivable in fanfic, but in a published novel I’d like to have seen a firmer editorial hand. It’s a minor point, and certainly not one that ruins the story.
This book is pretty mainstream, so you won’t find graphic sex (or graphic anything really). It could have done with a little more punch at times, particularly in the Josh, Reilly story at the end.
Good, pleasant read. Highly recommended.

Cerisaye's Review:
I want to go to Provincetown for my next summer holiday. This fairy tale book makes it seem like a place of magic where good things happen to good people and they all live happy ever after. A page-turning portmanteau plot with likeable characters and set during one long summer season in the clubs, bars and guest houses of P-town. It’s engaging, sexy and compulsive. The main characters are like friends. I couldn’t put the book down until I knew they were going to be okay.
The story is undemanding but not frothy or frivolous. It has a lot to say. About relationships, the difference between sex and love, commitment, coming to terms with sexual identity and the gap of understanding between who we are and how those around us want us to be.
People head to Provincetown for all kinds of reasons. Boys and girls looking for love or running from the past or simply trying to find themselves. Sand and water, sun and sky, lazy days and starry nights. Above all a place where gay people can feel like they belong, whether visiting for the first time, or coming back year after year. Permanent residents, ‘Rounders’, aren’t unaffected by an environment where gay is normal and society’s barriers not in place.
As usual with this sort of story some characters stick out more than others, down to personal preference. Gay romance is my big thing so I was drawn to the love angle. Josh Felling is a 30 something freelance copy writer from Boston, reeling from the discovery that his boyfriend of 8 years, Doug, has been unfaithful with a guy from the gym. Josh thought they had true love forever, so he’s bitter, hurt and angry. He just takes off, leaving his life behind, to lick his wounds in a cottage owned by sweet long-term couple Ted and Jerry who run the Two Queens guest house. Josh arrives for a weekend seeking solace, space to think things over, whether he’s willing to accept Doug’s infidelity, compromising on his search for Mr. Perfect. But fate has some surprises in store for Josh. He’s a sweetheart who can’t tear himself away from the family of friends he finds in the close-knit P-town community. To fill his time Josh picks up writing a novel he’d abandoned, pouring his romantic soul into a story of a regular Joe looking for a mate, love not sex his goal. He’s been burned but his faith in romance keeps him holding on. Can he find the man of his dreams?
In the first days of his stay Josh visits the Laundromat where he folds a pile of clothes left in a drier. Their owner, Reilly, is a stud who does building work. He’s engaged to be married but seems drawn to Josh, and the feeling is mutual. Increasingly tense encounters, usually when Reilly is drunk, make it clear he’s in denial about his true self. Can he find the courage to come out and allow himself to love another man?
Toby is an 18 year-old runaway from Hannibal, Missouri, who arrives in Provincetown on a bus. His religious parents can’t accept he’s gay and told him he’s going to hell. Luckily Toby meets Emmeline, a beautiful drag queen saving up for the op, who takes the boy in and looks after him like a mother should. Toby has a lot to learn about gay life, and Provincetown is a good school. Most gay youths find out on their own and that’s scary. His first sexual experience is with an older guy just looking for a trick. Toby, like Josh, wants something more.
This book is a cheery antedote to traditional gay fic where characters are doomed by their sexuality, destined to end up alone, chasing younger men until they’re too old and ugly. Okay I had to suspend my natural cynicism, but at least while I was reading I was convinced by the perfect life scenario. Yeah a lot of gay guys are messed up, ‘cuz that’s the human condition, but there are happy gay couples like Ted and Jerry, and it’s refreshing to read about gay men enjoying life. It’s melodramatic and hopelessly optimistic, but it sucks you in. Maybe it’s not great literature but it’s entertaining and fun, and never takes itself too seriously. Actually it’d make a really great movie. Highly recommended.

Thursday, January 26, 2006

sharing some thoughts...

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our dark that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people don't feel insecure around you.We are all meant to shine as children do. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsiously give other people to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others. - Timo Cruz from "Coach Carter"

Monday, January 23, 2006

6 ways to avoid having sex outside your relationship

i've read this article from a magazine lying in to my friends room...
i think it might be (in a way) of help to those who are having some fidelity issues...
here's the 6 ways to avoid having sex outside your relationship from the article "Staying faithful" by kelvin cabrera:
*overcome lust with revulsion or the prospect of rick
*distract yourself
*know what turns you on, then avoid it like the plague
*become unsexy
*from a support group
*turn affection into compassion
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if 3 years wasn't enough... then how long does it really take for someone to really say (with confidence), that you already know who your partner is... it saddened me to know that after almost 3 years of living in together two of my friends decided to go on their separate ways... actually one of them have decided it solely... and what's more shocking was to discover he didn't liked the other in the first place... at first he taught things would work out... but apparently he was fooling everyone and mostly himself. i was disappointed at him, for the past few years i thought they were such a perfect couple... someone i could look up to... something to make me believe there is really someone out there for me... haay.... right now i still cant believe this is really happening...
with this... it makes me wonder, what makes someone unfaithful... even if they are in a relationship for more than a year... what drives them to go find someone new... was it because of being together for quite sometime causes one to become bored... was it because of the urge to try something new... or it was just plain lust?

Wednesday, January 18, 2006

im back!!!

whew! it's been a while... he he he... well been toooooo busy with my new career... who would have thought a life as a bum would be so tiring... he he he... just finished lunch with my friends from ue here... i brought them pasta and some fruit salad... hay i miss working... anyways... as of now everything is like on a waiting list.... my job order is still in process... and that alone affects every decision i have to make... i cant commit to a permanent job because anytime starting this week i could receive my JO but who knows when... PATIENCE... hmmm... 4 months i guess is toooo much! he he he... but then again on the brigther side i still get to know that i have more friends than i have expected... they never fail to give me hope... some may misunderstood or against with my stupid decisions but then im still happy... just bored! ha ha ha!

it was a blessing in disguise that when my auntie offered me a sideline.... which is to be a P.A./Researcher/Sales Exec, with doing those stuffs I find myself being trained as a businessman someday... and hopefully this month we could put up the hardware store she would make me handle... and/or i could finish my research for the employment agency she want to put up. hay row row row!!! it seems like i got bored of rowing so i ventured out into other sports.... not so new with me but to the next level maybe.... i have some mornings that i would be jogging from libertad to ccp then do some sprints then back to macapagal road to edsa ... good thing my jogging buddy manny is there to wake me up in the morning! and this week i got addicted to swimming at the rizal memorial something... he heh e... so maybe if i go on like this i would be joining or will try out a triathlon someday. he he he... who knows... it depends on my boredom!

oh well gotta go...