Monday, January 23, 2006

6 ways to avoid having sex outside your relationship

i've read this article from a magazine lying in to my friends room...
i think it might be (in a way) of help to those who are having some fidelity issues...
here's the 6 ways to avoid having sex outside your relationship from the article "Staying faithful" by kelvin cabrera:
*overcome lust with revulsion or the prospect of rick
*distract yourself
*know what turns you on, then avoid it like the plague
*become unsexy
*from a support group
*turn affection into compassion
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if 3 years wasn't enough... then how long does it really take for someone to really say (with confidence), that you already know who your partner is... it saddened me to know that after almost 3 years of living in together two of my friends decided to go on their separate ways... actually one of them have decided it solely... and what's more shocking was to discover he didn't liked the other in the first place... at first he taught things would work out... but apparently he was fooling everyone and mostly himself. i was disappointed at him, for the past few years i thought they were such a perfect couple... someone i could look up to... something to make me believe there is really someone out there for me... haay.... right now i still cant believe this is really happening...
with this... it makes me wonder, what makes someone unfaithful... even if they are in a relationship for more than a year... what drives them to go find someone new... was it because of being together for quite sometime causes one to become bored... was it because of the urge to try something new... or it was just plain lust?

3 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous says...

get rid of your present one, get an annulment first, like Sharon Cuneta, Christopher de Leon and etc. then you can have the sex that you want with the ONE...how's that?

23 January, 2006 19:12  
Anonymous Anonymous says...

people change and so with relationships :) so to avoid it, put a lot of LOVE, maybe this wasn't enough to sustain it, a blessing for a lifetime of misery is avoided this way :)

23 January, 2006 19:20  
Anonymous Anonymous says...

then that is not true love and not the one for it didn't withstand the hands of time, so next is to find the real true one hopefully luck will smile and help you and each one who hopes to meet the ONE.

24 January, 2006 16:03  

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